As a saying goes, "Promise them everything and give them nothing!" Yes women like suspense and intrigue.
Guest 77
i had posted this on another thread but it was a little off topic so someone ask me to start a new thread and get the discussion going on this topic.
i do not mean to offend you ladies out there and i really am not sexist as i really love all of you.
i have had it told to me by people of your sex, they don't understand us guys.
As a saying goes, "Promise them everything and give them nothing!" Yes women like suspense and intrigue.
Guest 77
i'm in a bit of a state at the moment, my wife has just left me about 30 mins ago and took the kids...i don't know where.... ok, some of you long-timers may remember the problems i had with my son ben, who decided that the jw religion wasn't for him about a year ago.
i supported him as best i could through that and he's developed into a fine young man with a more healthy spiritual attitude, investigationg a number of christian churches in the area and finally settled on church of england, which he really likes now.. although no longer a christian myself i have no objection to them pursuing whatever religious path they choose (obviously within reason).
that has been the case with all of my children: ben, 15, charlotte, 14 and chloe, 12. i have never attempted to stop my wife taking them to the meetings although i have voiced to them privately my concerns about the religion.
Maintain your coolness and as someone suggested, keep track of all developments.
Guest 77
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i was wondering if those in the jw organization would be in better or worse mental health than those who quit the organization?
any thoughts?
If they're not carrying over guilt and fear, yes.
Guest 77
the wt says "no"... "when harry met sally" says "no"....what say you?????
is it possible to just be friends with the opposite sex?
and how do you feel when your significant other has a "best" friend of the opposite sex?
I'm with you Will/Penn. Hypocrites and liars are tough to take.
Guest 77
in the last couple of days ive been reading info on the un & wts ...so have been pretty absorbed with the amount of info out there on the wts...
anyway...it hasnt been that long since i left the wts...and a close friend of mine (never a witness) said to me ,twice now, and rather strongly again today...
"its over, you have left, get over it...your obsessed with this, who cares, just get over it before it drives you mad...its really pathetic"
Sens, I like your colorful replies. You've been given plenty of information to think about.
Guest 77
even when i was a dub i felt this way.
i mean, i would just stand there at gatherings and feel that i was in my own world -- that, somehow, everyone else was "in" and i was "out.
" i never felt this way at formal gatherings -- meetings, assemblies, etc -- only in most social settings.
L'sRun, my wife has been telling me for the past 41 years that I'm not normal. Yes, what is normal? I'm a strong believer in minding my own busines, I have and will always help others with no strings attached and I will not purposely injure others. My ways of doing things is not conventional, that is, not normal. Nothing like individuality or being your own person.
Guest 77
no, i'm not pissed off at anyone here..........but my job goes back to being full time next week, plus i'm being an apostate by taking some university courses in (gasp!
) religious studies (i'm sure to pass that!
), plus i'm really going to be busy helping my family with some things over the next while, so i'm not going to have time to post here.
Take care Mary, and I wish you the best in your endeavors. Do visit once in awhile.
Guest 77
i'm writting this post to comunicate you all that i finally da myself.
now it is a hard time for me.
the announcement was made this last friday, and i have known that there was a lot of people crying after that meeting.
Hi Hie. Yes, your lucky in being able to communicate with your family. I never felt uncomfortable using the word lucky even when I was a JW. I too am lucky.
Guest 77
in chemistry, certain chemicals react violently to other ingredients and should never be put together.
if we make a comparison with our everyday lives, do you think that certain people are incompatible with others, and that no matter what they do, they will never be friends?
have you ever experienced being incompatible to someone?
If you have intentions of ruining my day, expect the unexpected! I've come to negotiate with plenty of incompatible persons. Nothing like expecting the unexpected beauty of human imperfection. Some people are just beauts.
"If possible, as far as it depends upon YOU, be peaceable with all men." Romans 12:18
Guest 77
this topic is largely in response to the topic:.
in one post, i said:one possible reason that both native americans and blacks (then slaves) were treated so badly for so long is that both largely sided with the british in the war of independence.
i guess countries have some kind of giant collective consciousness that takes a while to change.. .
Simon, could you fill me in on 'why' the Indians played on one European power against the other when they were the landowners? Are you sure it wasn't the Europeans playing against the Indians to steal their land?
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